Erica,
Your words have encouraged me to believe that you have a warm and loving family. We cannot take back yesterday and guilt should only serve to cause us to make appropriate decisions. I hope at this time your family loves and encourages each other. The most ragic events often cause me to be stronger and know that there is much more to this life than what appears on the suface. Erica, we love you. We know we would have loved you daughter if we had known her.
I pray the hope that passes all understanding will comfort you as you sort out your thoughs and decide how to deal with each thought and feeling. from a distance, we are huggin you and your loved ones.

Your friend,
Lon