Hi Kevin,
You are not out-of-order at all sharing these thoughts in the open. I think you are very wise and I hope that expressing your concerns like this may serve to help our community.
As another member wisely said, people should feel free to share their own experiences and interactions about their treatment and care, good or bad, with the aim to give and/or receive support.
I also feel it would be kinder and more respectful of one another to tone down the hyperbole a bit, particularly on subject matters that are not born of personal experience; to recognise that sharing opinion, information and personal insight does differ from trying to impose personal beliefs. It should be easy to keep in mind that fellow posters are hurting and that overly negative, pushy, or repetitive comments are not apt to be helpful.
You are a truly generous, supportive soul Kevin - thank you.
mig
