Hello Kevin
I too was very moved by the post where a new member had walked in the door only to feel it was slammed in their face.
You have said something really important on this post, Kevin and it certainly made me think about my own personal conduct.
I like to be a bit silly and joke around - but on more than one occassion, although unintentionally
, I have made comments which could have upset or offended certain members. I am deeply sorry about this as I am a very supportive and loyal person usually, and would be mortified to think I had hurt someone in any way.
I will certainly be thinking more in future about Support being of paramount importance on this site above all else.
People can be in serious pain, on powerful medication, hanging on by a thread, overwhelmed with depression and countless other things.
It's great to laugh and joke, it's great to debate. But it should always be with support in mind. You can't go wrong if you speak from your heart - it's your head that sometimes gets things wrong.
If we all look out for someone, we will all have someone looking out for us too and hopefully no-one should feel they are alone.
Take care, Kevin, I think what you have said needed saying big time.
