Gardengirl, I am so sorry that this hit you like it did. It must hurt terribly. It took my husband a while to adjust to my illness. Once he understood it, he has been here every day. I already had RA when we married but the other diagnoses came along in my 20's. Now we have been married 40++ years and he hurts as much as I do.

Just hang in there. Come here any time you need to talk. Feel welcome to PM me if you would like

Hugs and Blessings.
Possi

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RUN WHEN YOU CAN,
WALK IF YOU HAVE TO,
CRAWL IF YOU MUST,
JUST NEVER EVER GIVE UP!



"A FRIEND HEARS THE SONG IN YOUR HEART AND SINGS IT TO YOU WHEN YOU CAN'T REMEMBER THE WORDS."

"A FRIEND LOOKS THROUGH YOUR BROKEN FENCE TO ADMIRE YOUR FLOWERS."