Wow that stinks, but you have to remember guys have to fix things and when they can't they dont deal well with it. I feel the same way and have asked Chad before we got serious how he would deal with me. We are both very active and fish alot, he just looked at me and said matter of factly he would rather push me in a wheelchair out to the pier and set me up then be with anybody else.. He made me cry.. We haven't looked back. I just have to remember he has bad days and doubts too, so I just try and give him room and make sure he knows I appreciate him by doing special little things for him when I can.. All you can do is be honest and open with each other...
Angie