LOL Thanks everyone!
David, I think I'm going to take your advice and exercise my right to have as many 21st birthdays as I want!

It's been a long, long while since we last painted the town red. Right now I'd settle for painting the living room

Sam said he was going to have to work a long day again today (like he has for the last two weeks), so I sent the kids off to school and made myself a spa treatment at home. Then right after the kids got home, Sam showed up (he had actually left work early) with a dozen roses, a special vase, and a chocolate birthday cake, and a little "me sized" marble cheesecake. Kaylie played "Happy Birthday" for me on her violin.
A day at the spa, flowers, chocolate, and the symphony. What more could a girl want? Oh yeah, good friends to share it with.

Thanks to you all for that!