Hey Karen,
Wow, I'm sorry to hear about your husband. That has to really be difficult for the whole family. That really has to be hard to know that someplace doesn't want you, but you can stick around to basically bail them out for another year. That's just wrong.
I hope that he finds something close by at least. I know what moving can do to a family, even if it isn't half way across the country. I swore that I would never do it again.
Hang in there
Keep Kickin'AS
Chris