Dear Pam
I am so, so sorry to hear of Reggie's death. He couldn't have been very old and obviously it was unexpected which makes it all so much worse. Please know I am thinking of you and the boys.
Please don't feel guilty that you haven't seen him in a while, your life has not been easy for the last couple of years. He knew you loved him that's all that really matters.
I hope you manage to find a way to get there to say goodbye.
