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Joined:  Aug 2010 Posts: 39 Member |  
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Well my wife and i have decided to buy a new bed this year. What beds have served some of you well. We were thinking of a tempurpedic style, but not sure yet. |  |  |  
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|   Third_Degree_AS_Kicker Joined:  Oct 2010 Posts: 253 | 
Anything firm seems to help me. I have had tempurpedic and sleep number. Tempurpedic helped more  but my wife likes a soft bed. A feather bed topper even causes me pain. I have to have it fairly firm and a pillow between the legs if I roll over onto my side. 
 HLAB27+  A.S for 2 year. Humira, Enbrel, Simponi all tried now moving on to Remicade. Meth, sulfa, tramadol, etc...
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Joined:  Aug 2007 Posts: 1,489 Silver_AS_Kicker |  
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I like to have a pillow under my knees if I sleep on my back! |  |  |  
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Joined:  Jun 2010 Posts: 3,865 Royal_AS_kicker |  
|   Royal_AS_kicker Joined:  Jun 2010 Posts: 3,865 | 
Ok, this is my perfect bed. 
 1st layer: A good firm mattress
 2nd layer: 2" memory foam topper
 3rd layer: 1.5" egg crate regular foam topper
 4th layer: A puffy mattress cover
 5th layer: very soft sheet
 
 (The bed in our guest room is the same as the my own bed, and people LOVE our guest bed!)
 
 Plus which, if you get night sweats, you can just replace the foam layer every so often for cheap.
 
 Pillow:
 
 I have 2, and switch off during the nights I'm uncomfortable
 
 1. thin puffy regular pillow
 2. memory foam pillow with that extra little bump for neck support.
 
 Good luck!
 
 ANA+ RF+ Rh- HLAB27+
 Dx JRA 1967, GAD 1997, AS 2009, HMs 2010, CPS 2013
 pulmonary edema w/ NSAIDS 2009
 
 Movin' it so I don't lose it!
 
 
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Joined:  Jan 2008 Posts: 21,346 Likes: 2 Very_Addicted_to_AS_Kickin |  
|   Very_Addicted_to_AS_Kickin Joined:  Jan 2008 Posts: 21,346 Likes: 2 | 
bed: fairly firm, but with just a bit of softness on top. so firm but a little soft. 
 head: thin feather pillow that supports the neck without pushing it is absolutely essential!
 
 lay on my back, pillows under knees/legs.
 
 laying on either side, kills my SI joint.
 
 
 sue
 
 Spondyloarthropathy, HLAB27 negative
 Humira (still methylprednisone for flares, just not as often. Aleve if needed, rarely.)
 LDN/zanaflex/flector patches over SI/ice
 vits C, D. probiotics. hyaluronic acid. CoQ, Mg, Ca, K.
 chiro
 walk, bike
 no dairy (casein sensitivity), limited eggs, limited yeast (bread)
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Joined:  May 2010 Posts: 774 Likes: 1 Magical_AS_Kicker |  
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Ok, this is my perfect bed. 
 1st layer: A good firm mattress
 2nd layer: 2" memory foam topper
 3rd layer: 1.5" egg crate regular foam topper
 4th layer: A puffy mattress cover
 5th layer: very soft sheet
 
 (The bed in our guest room is the same as the my own bed, and people LOVE our guest bed!)
 
 Plus which, if you get night sweats, you can just replace the foam layer every so often for cheap.
 
 Pillow:
 
 I have 2, and switch off during the nights I'm uncomfortable
 
 1. thin puffy regular pillow
 2. memory foam pillow with that extra little bump for neck support.
 
 Good luck!
1st layer: good firm mattress 2nd layer: me 3rd layer: marilyn Monroe and you're good to go |  |  |  
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Joined:  Apr 2010 Posts: 43 Member |  
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I have a sleep number bed and I like it.  Used to love it but over the last year or so, my couch is more comfortable.  The reason I like the sllep number is because my husband and I have totally differnt numbers.  However when I am in a flair, I like to be able to change my bed to something a little more comfortable.  Usually softer when I am flaired.  Firmer when I am not.  I have a memory foam pillow that I stole from my husband a few months ago.  Again, I like it but the arm of my couch is nicer to me most of the time.  I think I would like my bed more if I didnt have to climb 17 stairs to get to it.  Thats why I like the couch in the livingroom down stairs.  =) 
 ~Sara~
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It's tricky for us ASers (as if you didn't know!) we need firm support but a soft touch for our joints, bones, tendons etc.  I've suffered with too soft a mattress pretty well forever giving me extra back ache every morning. Now we've bought something too firm! Arrrgh. Next we plan to put a mattress pad on top of the firm one - which I'm hopefull will work out to be pretty well ideal. Firm - with padding.     Life isn't always about holding good cards, but sometimes about playing a poor hand well.  
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Joined:  Dec 2008 Posts: 5,231 |  
|   Joined:  Dec 2008 Posts: 5,231 | 
That's what I have - a firm mattress with both a thin softer one on top plus a feather bed on top of that which molds itself to my shape and suppports me where I need it. For that to work it's important to shake it up regularly otherwise it can bunch up and feel hard. 
 Wendy
 
 Rheumatoid Arthritis
 Methotrexate, Celebrex, Plaquenil
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Joined:  Dec 2008 Posts: 5,231 |  
|   Joined:  Dec 2008 Posts: 5,231 | 
I was doing that but learned in one of my RA books why that isn't a good idea - I'll try and find it this evening. It's alright for short periods I think. I'll look for the reason and post it in this thread. 
 Wendy
 
 Rheumatoid Arthritis
 Methotrexate, Celebrex, Plaquenil
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