Kickas.org Forums Ankylosing Spondylitis General Discussion #1 AS Web Support Group Flaring and hurting in the joints and heart...

Hugs and prayers Buggy...Lots of them, your way!
PT

Ange, I'm so sorry for your loss. And then your brother and dad, all on top of everythings else. Your family must just be reeling.

Please know that you are in my thoughts and I'm sending tons of white light and love your way. You do what you need to to get through this, OK? Be kind to yourself (and tell Missy G the same thing, as this must be hitting her pain too).

Hold fast to your baby bugs and Art. I know they will help you through as we here in cyberland cannot.

Love and hugs,

Dear Buggy, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your grandma. It is so hard to say goodbyes and I can tell by your words that you will miss her tremendously. To know that you have two other family members in hospital and fighting for their health, and all at the same time, this must be overwhelming you emotionally.

My good thoughts will be with you and wishing you strength through this.

Warmest hugs,
mig

Oh sweet Buggie. I am so sorry for your sorrow. I am so sorry for your pain. I have been thinking of you and your sweet little bugs. I will be praying for you and your family.
Hugs.
Possi

Hi ladybuggie,

Just wanted to say i'm sorry to hear of your sadness and pain. I too am experiencing physical pain and sadness from the death of loved ones. Just lost my grandfather to dementia and now my grandmother (his wife) is in palliative care because her heart is bad and her kidneys failed. I live across the country so I can't see them. It's sad, but in some ways it makes it easier not to have to watch the suffering.

All my best,

colin

Hi Buggie,

I'm so sorry to hear of all this pain. Your mom is lucky she has you to support her. I hope better days are ahead for you.

wow I am so sorry that there is one more thing on your back. You have gone through so much lately. Hang in there I love ya please take care of yourself.

Love ya,
Donna

Hi Ang, sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandmother. Prayers are going out to your family, that they stay strong, for your grandmother will never be gone, as you/your family hold her loving memories close to your/their heart.

Hope your father gets well quickly and out of the hospital.

Hugs
Gerri

Ah, Buggy, I am so sorry to hear about all this pain and heartbreak in your life right now. Seems just so unfair to have so many things go so wrong at once, I know. I truly feel for you and what you are going through with your grandmother (or is she your great-grandmother--I can't remember now), as I am living though just about the same thing with my dear grandmother right now. She was hit with anesthesia-induced dementia after hip replacement surgery a few years ago, and after doing quite well for most of the time since then, she finally started going downhill a couple months ago. Two weeks ago she was moved to the hospice care level, and now every decision that occurs is done with only one thing in mind, and that's ensuring she is as comfortable as possible for whatever time she has left. My grandma was a very important person in my life, and I love her dearly; it has just been so hard these past few weeks to see her condition decline so rapidly. What has hurt me even more is the fact that I have been unable to go and see her due to this horrible flare I've been in without my remicade. I did get to see her once, thank god, and I will be able to see her again early next week, but it's really bothered me not being able to be there more often. She was the center of our family, and it will be very hard to lose her. So, I understand some of the hurt you're feeling now, and I send all my love and prayers your way during this difficult time for you and your family.

Brad

Thank you...they were welcomed.. family shared tears, hugs,sadness, but most of all joy that our grandma is not hurting anymore. She looked beautiful and peaceful. The way I remembered my gramma.
buggy