Kickas.org Forums Ankylosing Spondylitis General Discussion #1 AS Web Support Group Mom's Dying

Mig, I had decided not to chance it but all of a sudden last night I felt like I HAD to see her, so I put on a mask and I went up there and I'm glad that I did, I got the chance to tell her how much I love her, so no regrets....

Thanks so much Russell, I really appreciate it....

HI Lisa....I went last night on the fly, because it was so late, there was almost nobody in the hallways, so I feel good about that...well, to be honest with you, I wouldn't have cared if there were a million people in the halls, I still would've gone...

Thanks Chris, that means so much to me...

I think its right for your own sake that you had that chance it will give you some comfort in the future I know it did me with my mum who died at 90 and my sister who died at 52 . My one regret is I didnt get a chance with my brother who died suddenly at 54 or my father who died when I was only 7 he was only 52. But there still in my heart and always will be.
Kevin

Dearest Michelle - So wretchedly sad for you to read this latest news. Please know that your mom is in my prayers and you are in my thoughts and prayers to bring you through this time. Was happy for you to read that you made it to the hospital to see our mom, and with no ill effects to follow you. Praise be. Many (((HUGS))) my lovely lass

Molly C (France)

So glad you were able to get the chance to see your Mom, Michelle, and what a sensible idea to go late at night when there are less people around.

I hope you are doing okay - as much as possible. I'm so sad for you and continue to send you love and hugs.

Thank you so, so much Sherri, it seems so surreal, the doctor told us that her organs are shutting down, so it's just a matter of time....

Angie, you all mean so much to me and it's a great comfort to me to know that my KA family is here for me...

Trudi, yeah is still in the hospital too, he got out for a couple of days, stangely so did Mom, but they both went right back in, they told us that with Dad it's not a matter of 'IF' but 'WHEN', so he will pass too but he keeps amazing the doctors and pulling through....with Mom, everytime they take off the CPAP machine, her oxygen levels crash, she has pulmonary fibrosis from the Lupus, which ironically we too can get, they thought that I had it but testing showed that it was damage from a chemical exposure that I got during an explosion at an oil refinery that I used to work in....