Kickas.org Forums Ankylosing Spondylitis General Discussion #1 AS Web Support Group I have DANG well had ENOUGH already!

My mom's boyfriend started destroying my tack. Then he cheerily brought my attention to it. Then called me a F***ing B**ch . . . and laughed his butt off . . . and my mother just sat there.

I grabbed my cat and my saddles and left . . . going back with Cody and the marshall tomorrow to get more stuff, and my 23 other animals. (she gave me ownership of all the animals so she can be a "free spirit" with her boyfriend"). Cody and I are trying to find a mobile home with some land. I'm calling in favors all across the Middle Rio Grande Valley to try to get places for my critters . . . Still need a place for 2 cats to stay, and who knows where in the heck I'm gonna put the 14 chickens and 4 ducks. Found a place for the horse and the sheep, and Carbon (my special kitty) is going wherever I go, no matter what. I need another job, so *poof!* there goes my hope of getting disability, right? If I need to get another job, no matter how tired I am . . . And after miscarrying earlier this week, DANGIT I am so friggin upset! And I'm exhausted. I've lost my mom, and the only home I've ever had, and now I have to move, but every time I make a trip to the house I have to take a cop with me because this guy scares me. My mom is defending him. She actually said "Victor just wants to be your friend." After he got in my face and screamed "Up your A**, you F**king B**ch!" and laughed like a madman. After he destroyed my hackamore. And flaunted it in my face.

Carbon and I stayed at my dad's last night . . . hopefully Cody and I can get into this one singlewide in MeadowLake, it has an acre and it's only $39,000.

My brother-in-law called to ask me about AS today . . . my 6-year-old niece is moving less and less, saying her legs and her back hurt her. To top it all off.

And we almost lost Chris again Monday night.

2008 isn't looking too great so far.

I sorta want to scream, y'know?

Thanks guys,
*hugs*
Bridge

Awww Sweetie...

I am sorry that you are going through all this crap. If you want to scream, go ahead. It will not do anything, but it will make you feel better. It will relieve stress.

If I was closer, I would help you out, but all I can do is offer you hugs and prayers....I have those in abundance.

Sounds like it's time for a hangin!!!!!

I'm sorry Bridge I hope you and Cody and Carbon find somewhere..

I'm here if you need me..

Hugs,

Lisa

(((BIG HUG)))

I am sorry to hear about this mess Bridget and I wish you the best of luck.

I was surprised by the disability though. I thought your AS was in remission due to the LDN?

I am praying for Chris

I guess you have had it, Bridge. I sure hate to hear that kind of news. Its hard to explain whee some people's head goes when they put on those rose colored glasses. Sounds like this guy is just plain bad news.

I have a 12 acre plot of ground out here in Ohio...Think we can move it to New Mexico for ya? I would if I could.

I hope you find a place to settle with Cody and animals. I am very sorry to hear about your miscarriage, that sure can't help the mood either..

I'll be pulling for ya
Keep Kickin'AS
Chris

You know....I really can relate with you on this...

The very first time I met my moms boyfriend was when I walked in her house a few seconds after Eric. He did not see me, but said to Eric...Wo the f*** are you?

I ran up the stairs and said, that is my F***ing kid, and you will never speak to him like that again!

The man threatened to punch my oldest at one point...I told him that my boy may be 18 years old but if he touched him, I would make sure he got the ever living crap beat out of him.

The man my mom is with is from Louisiana. Around here they call him the ragin cajun. He drinks and is a mean drunk. The police have been called on him many times, and my mother just does not care or does not see what he is. I am not sure which.

There are lots of people who no longer speak to my mom because of this man. Friends that she has had from childhood, and me.

I hope that it does not affect your relationship with your mother, and that she sees what everyone else does soon.

Good luck hon, and let me know if I can help. I really do understand where you are coming from.

Big hugs
Lori

Sorry to hear about all the bad news - you are such a strong woman to hang in there after everything. You have really put my various troubles in perspective. I wish that I lived closer to you so that I could help more.

Many hugs and prayers,

Mary Alicia in Maryland

Hey Bridget,

Sorry to hear how things are going for you at the moment. I had thought you have been through more than your share of stuff on your own lately without hearing this in addition to the rest. I hope everything works out for you guys and you can find a place where things will be less stressful on you for a while. Keep your chin up and hang in there it does get better. I know I have had my share of being kicked around and out by the ex several times.

Brent

What the heck, when it rains it pours huh?

I'm sorry this is happening, it must feel like a nightmare for you. I hope you're able to get things sorted out soon.