Kickas.org Forums Ankylosing Spondylitis General Discussion #1 AS Web Support Group Please pray for my husband

Hello All,
Sorry I haven't posted for a while. I have AS. It is attacking my entire body.
I am in a lot of pain. My husband is also ill. He had two strokes in 2002. Last October, he was told he has lung cancer. The past two weeks he has taken a turn for the worse. I have called Hospice in to help me. He is either in so much pain or when I give him his pain medicince he just stares off into space. Please pray to God to ease his pain. To go to Him as easy as possible. Please pray for me to have the strenght to take care of him. Also to except his passing. It is breaking my heart and soul. Next month we will be married 22 years. He is my whole world. It is so
hard. But I will not send him to a nursing home. I want him to pass in my arms surrounded by his family. He has been such a good husband and father. He adopted my first two sons from my first marriage. Then we had one together. He is living in Australia. Please pray for him. He is 22 years old, and it is so hard on him
because he can't be here. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with in my life. To all of you that read this, thank you for caring.
God Bless,
Rebecca

Hello, Rebecca:

Perhaps just a few of us can even imagine what you are going through right now, but I want to assure you that both you and your husband are certainly in our thoughts and prayers. I hope that you have a strong support group around you now.

John

Hey Rebecca, i am so sorry for you and your husband, I can't imagine how difficult this time is for you, you are being amazingly strong. You are certainly in my thoughts xxx

My God Rebecca,

Thank you for comming here and sharing with us. You MUST be having such a hard time. I will surely be praying hard for both him and you. I am so sorry that you have to bear this pain, and tribulation. You came to the right place to ask for support, as this is the most supportive group of friends I have ever known. I hope that you are able to make it through this trying time in your life.

May God bless you,
and grant you the strength to get through this trying and troubling time in your life, and the wisdom to know what to do, to know right from wrong,

I hope this finds you well, my friend,

Take good care of yourself, OK?

Daniel

Rebecca...We will pray for you.husband and family for God peace and comfort...and to bring healing to your mind,spirit,and soul...but focusing on our great God can encourage you both and renew you'll strenght...you are in my thoughts as well..and praying for his pain to decrease...Love/Prayers

Rebecca,

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this extremely rough time in your life. I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through but i do know that with the power of all these wonderful people behind you, hopefully you will find the peace within to handle what is happening and what is to happen in the coming days.

*soft gentle hugs*

marnie

Rebecca,
I will be in prayer for you and your family, expecially your husband. I hope that Hospice can ease your burden. Dear friend, you may not be able to care for your husband. Only you know what you have left to give. We admire you and your courage and let us know how things are going.
Brer Lon

So sorry to hear the news, Rebecca. My thoughts go out to your husband, I hope his pain lessens. I think you are doing the right thing. Be assured that lots of ASkickers here will be thinking and praying for your family.

Peace
Linc

Rebeca,

I can't even imagine the pain, sorrow and grief you are trying to endure right now.

I also see an incredible woman that is struggling with her own health issues yet, you want to be by your dear husbands side to care for him and for him to see your beautiful face every time he looks at you.

I can't imagine the pain you are going thru right now, losing your precious husband. There isn't anything we are going to be able to say right now to ease your pain. I am just sorry you are having to go thru this.

Just know that you, your husband, your children and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

I will pray for you to have the courage to be strong for him and for your self, and I will pray that his pain is eased and that his passing will be easy for him.

Keep us updated, and know that I am here if you need to talk or if there is anything that I can do. Feel free to pm me.

Lisa

Of course I remember you and your wonderful raven picture.

I was aware of your husbands condition but not this turn for the worse. So sad to hear this.

I'm glad to hear you've called in hospice, can't say enough good things about them. They'll help you as well as your husband. Very kind and knowledgable.

thought and prayers going out to you and yours
Klem