Dear
Steve,
When a person gets shafted I think it is normal to hate, at least for a while. I would suggest that he hear from you, how upset you are toward him. Did you do that? I usually write out what I want to say and how bad I intend to make the person feel and them I am a bit more in control when the blood letting occurs. You have an enmorous amount of support, and I would join the Bruno club, cept, I don't think I would need any help. The comment that I have found is in the form of a question: you look him / her in the eye and ask for a referal for someone who knows a bit more than they know about the subject. Without having met you or your wife, you seem like family. I thought of you when I kissed my youngest grandson. While your are angry, realize that you have reason, but remember, hating too long will rob you of joy. There are times I am forced to wrestle with two legged skunks in my line of work. When I see it coming, I remember my peramaters and keep my thoughts and words within those lines.
There are a couple men, who when we see each other we hug and slap each other on the back. Pretend that my short thick body is coming toward you and you think to yourself, this guy really loves me and my family- because I do!
Lon