sometimes ya just gotta take the risk and just jump in if ya dont like it dont join in but for me i found a niece i have seen or heard of since 1985 and we are gettin alone just fine.....for me its the thrill of the unknown its a challenge that i gotta take when the weather is bad and im housebound i turn to the net and bein able to talk to friends and family really perks me up.....oak
