Hi Maggie,
Sorry to hear about the less than ideal visit. The doctor does seem a bit insensitive from your comments. Is your last name "Newby".... or was that in reference to being a new patient? If it is the latter... that is rather alarming.
Hopefully you can find some answers either here or with your next visit if you keep it.
Tim
If you get up one more time than you fall, you will make it through - Chinese Proverb