Kickas.org Forums Ankylosing Spondylitis General Discussion #1 AS Web Support Group I have DANG well had ENOUGH already!

Oh sweetie, What a horrible mess. Frankly, I feel sorry for your mom that she thinks she isn't worth more than what this man is capable of giving. Unfortunately, he'll turn it on her one of these days, once you and your gear are no longer there for him to destroy.

And I feel downright horrible for you. Honestly, that man deserves every bit of hardship we all wish we could give him. You are a dear, dear woman and I'm so glad you have Cody on your side. That you should fear going to your own mom's house is unthinkable. Have you heard about the land you spoke of yet? Have the police questioned why you want one of them with you when you go there? Do they know of your fears and have they opened a file on it?

I just wish I was there to land some good old fashioned, KA Kat Whupass on him!!!! grrrrr.

I'm so sorry to hear things are touch and go with Chris again. You go ahead and scream, hon. As someone else said, it'll help relieve pent up pressure.

Warm hugs,

Hey Linc,

Haven't you ever been to a tack shop? It is the saddles, bridle and riding gear for horses. Next time you see one of those NY policemen riding his horse you can tell him he has nice tack.

If you were to go to rip out a spine maybe he would know what it felt like to have AS and coping with it everyday.

Brent

Bridget...how awful that you have to go through all of this, I hope everything gets worked out soon!! Hey Linc....a Hackamore is a type of bridle, it's actually a "bitless bridle"...it puts pressure on the nose, I use it for the horses that are being difficult or that won't tolerate a mouth bit.

Hi Bridge,

Your mothers B/F sounds like a handfull. I hope she can come to her senses, does not sound they type you want associated with any family member love or hate. Hoping you can find a place, AS stays at bay and your mother comes to her senses regarding having this individual around.

Tim

Y'all are great, you know that?

I've found a foster home for all the farm critters (I'm calling in favors) but I still need a place for 2 cats . . . imagine that, it's easier to find a place to foster my SHEEP than my cats! lol

Chris is doing better . . . we're not sure why, but he scares the crap out of us every so often and goes comatose for a few hours. He's up and laughing again now.

We're doing the Real Estate Search Tango right now . . . (good lord is that exhausting) and I'm trying to bead my butt off for extra money. Two galleries in San Ysidro are willing to take my stuff on consignment or purchase, and the gal at the post office is pulling my mail out of the box so my mom doesn't get it (I love small towns - we really come to bat for people when they're on hard times).

My mom called me right before work today and started in on me - "Victor wasn't doing anything wrong, and you jumped all over him (!!??!!WTF?!!??) and he just wants to be friends with you." (!?see aboveWTF!?) and is now saying she won't let me take the critters. So I'm bringing the marshall with me AGAIN on Thursday, when I come to get my animals. Damnit. I know that's gonna bleep, but you get the point.

*sigh*

Y'all really are great. *hugses*
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Bridge

Bridge,

You make sure you take some back-up with you to get the critters...this guy has shown he is a psycho and unstable and apparently your Mom is having a HUGE brain fart...I can't imagine choosing ANY man over your own child.

I hope you and Cody and Carbon find somewhere and then maybe you can have some peace.

Hopefully he will leave you alone...if he knows what is good for him or he might find himself dumped down the well or buried in the pasture somewhere under the cows, sounds like that is all he is good for anyway.

You keep your chin up we are here for you.

Hugs,

Lisa

Well, Bridget, double, triple, and quadruple all who have posts before me. I've only read your posts and havent replied to you yet. So, sorry to hear of all your troubles. No person should be going thru that messy of a family situation. Hope and pray that things turn around for you BIG time. Flip

Just wanted you to know that I'm still thinking of you, and that I hope you get everything worked out soon.

Holy Cow Bridge,

I certainly hope that everything gets straightened out soon. I have a sister who chose a man over her kids, and it breaks my heart for them. And also makes me want to kick the crap out of my sister.

Is this jerk being charged with destruction of property or anything?? Sure sounds like he should be.

Here is hoping for better days soon.

Take care,
Pam

Bridget - IF I could leap this ole pond I would, with my crop in me hand AND an antique curb bit (that no one would use on a horse) and I'd stuff it in his mouth and take him out and nail him to the ground by one foot - leave the bas...d spinning. Bloody Norah. The man is a total lunatic. Needs psychiatric care, behind locked doors in a strait-jacket. GGggrrrrr.

As for your moom? Sorry hon, but that is so bloody sad.

Keep us updated. Hope springs for getting your critters and ALL your stuff outta there - safely!!. You go gal -

Molly
Battling granny