Here is a suggestion on finding help around the house. Call your local Red Cross. They offer courses on babysitting and would be able to give you a list of names for sitters. I just called on Monday for myself and was given 10 names of 14 yearold girls that have completed the course. I myself was looking for a "mother's helper". Someone to keep am eye on the kids while I tinker around the house or take a nap. So far I have 2 good candidates. Or if you just need help with chores I would run an ad in the newspaper and hire someone to do household chores.
Take care.
Cara
"I've learned.... That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile." Andy Rooney 
