To find positive in an unfortunate situation is special. I am much the same. It's not that I'm upset with people who don't understand, how can they until they go through it themselves. You are helping people that are in pain and they are receptive to it because now they can relate and understand where your coming from, it's nice when that happens. It's just to bad for most people that they themselves have to experience the pain before they can relate, and that in turn makes them more understanding and compassionate. We are already that!