Magician, was your question pertaining to the apparent gender disparity here on KA?
The answer is simple. Only guys who are secure in their masculinity are strong enough to talk about their pain. The rest, in trying to hide their weakness, reveal it.
Shalom,
John

Author: Mayan Solstice: A Novel of 2012 (
http://www.createspace.com/3420054)
If you would know a man, observe how he treats a cat.-
from "The Door into Summer" (1957), chapter 1 (Robert Anson Heinlein)
Love is the condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own. (again, RAH)