Hi Nancy,

Yep, giving up the social events is a big one isn't it!

Funnily enough, it was the one thing my insurance doctor didn't ask about! Yet social life is a big factor of our enjoying life.

I tried to join a singing group but found they all SIT in a circle. I felt to embarrassed to be the only one standing.

I have to decline invites to barbeques etc because I can't last more than an hour, and then would be in pain afterwards.

I used to go out all the time, and am now house bound. I can't even go to Parents without Partners because I can't sit long enough for their quiz nights, card nights and get togethers.

Their other activity is playing badmington each week - right out as well.

BUT, I've adapted to it, and am happy to take my dog for a couple of walks a day.

All the best,

James


I ache, therefore I am