My sister hates doctors so much that she won't go to them. My oldest niece has Reynauds. The only reason she got a diagnosis was that her hands were purple to the wrist and Mum got pushy about getting her to the doctor. You know, I don't care what anyone thinks about doctors. When children and pain are involved, you have to think of their well-being. Let them decide to hate doctors when they're old enough to know the difference, know what I mean?
I understand your anger on your niece's behalf completely.
Warm hugs,
