Lon,
I am so sorry...
I lost my Sweet Mother in 3/04 she died in the hospital in my arms.
Although it is the hardest thing I have ever gone thru, I was there and she wasnt alone and I would not have had it any other way.
Even now just thinking or talking about her and I start crying, I miss her so much!
I will keep you and your wife and your Mother in my prayers for peace and strength.
Take Care,
Lisa