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Long time away .... Brief synopsis....
*found a great physical therapist

*Pregnancy #6 helped reduce spondy pn

*directed a successful pirate festival


*spent last 3 weeks of pregnancy in start-n-stop labor while in hospital with dd#3 who went status epilepticus and almost didnt come out of it. Had to slam her with lotsa meds.

*alexander was born at home in the middle of the week long pirate fest. He was the darling of the event.

*lotsa pt, ot & speech therapy to get dd#3 functioning better.

*told hubby i was done with his abusive crap and wanted a separation.

*life started getting worse

*went to wyoming with kids to visit my long lost brother for a few weeks during christmas and to give hubs time to get an apt.

*transmission went dry

*hubby filed for divorce to get me back home a week later and said hes not moving out. I am to continue to live with him.

*dd#3 went to hosp ER a couple days later with ear infection. Stayed a week with 'failure to thrive' from epilepsy med overdosing. She was unable to eat since on so many meds her body was shutting down.

*had to miss a friend of the court mtg to determine temp custody, visitation & child support cuz she was in hosp.

*my brother gets an infection in his hand. Turns out to be mrsa and he is in the hospital now, losing a thumb.

*hubby is working on taking the kids away. He's keeping my finances to a bare minimum as punishment for not coming home when he said.

*hmmm.... I think that is everything in a nutshell. Not sure i like being stuck in the middle of nowhere, wyoming in the winter!!! Brrrr! It kinda sux out here! Lol! But it looks like i will be working on residency for awhile anyway, to keep him from making me go back to MI and living with a very unstable controling and posessive man.

Gotta love my life ...... yawn


~ Trudi: homeschooling mom to 6: 16,14,11,9,7, 6 mos


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Trudi

Glad you are here. Often thought of you and wondered how you are doing, sorry that life is kicking you in the backside right now. I hope the challenges that you face will end soon and that you find some sort of peace. Trudi please know that we are all here for you every step of the way.


I can not defeat you but I will not let you win

Jeff

Degenrative disc disease 2005
AS 2008 HLA-B27-
Fibromyalgia 2010
Disability 2012
Back to work part time 2013
Enbrel, Cymbalta,Oxycodone, blah blah blah blah
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Sounds like you are having a rough time. I hope things get better real soon. I'll say a prayer for you today and for your family. Take care.


Diet change has improved my RA. I feel best eating raw veggies and some fruits and avoiding grains, sugars, nightshades, beans and dairy. Sed rate dropped from 65 to 19, but it took over a year.
www.fatsickandnearlydead.com

excess fat/oils = pain for me
recipes for raw food on Youtube "raw food romance"
and "healing josephine" Josephine is in remission from RA after two years by change diet/exercise
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Hello Trudi,

Sounds like you are going through a lot.... AS is enough and appears you have much more.

Pray you can find some answers to all the issues you are dealing with.

Tim


AS may win some battles, but I will win the war.

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Trudi, I'm glad you came in to talk. You are so strong, are being so strong, please try to find the energy and make the time to do compassionate things for yourself.

Is there someone you can turn to for support and help?

Please keep coming in here. It's so much easier to bear life's crap with people who care to lean on.

Love and Warm Hugs,


Kat

A life lived in fear is a life half lived.
"Strictly Ballroom"

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OMG Trudi I had no idea about the husband......I did follow your pirate festival & baby pics on facebook though, they were great!!
So sorry to hear you are going through all of this and shame on him !!!! (((HUGS Trudi)))!!!!!

Sherri


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Trudi, I am glad you posted. I am so sorry you are having such a hard time right now.
Hugs.
Possi




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RUN WHEN YOU CAN,
WALK IF YOU HAVE TO,
CRAWL IF YOU MUST,
JUST NEVER EVER GIVE UP!



"A FRIEND HEARS THE SONG IN YOUR HEART AND SINGS IT TO YOU WHEN YOU CAN'T REMEMBER THE WORDS."

"A FRIEND LOOKS THROUGH YOUR BROKEN FENCE TO ADMIRE YOUR FLOWERS."

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Trudi - Was only thinking of you the other day, wondering how you and the children were. What a horrible situation. Join others in hoping that you find a good outcome and find a circle of support to help you through this time. Hope your daughter pulls up quickly from her illnness and your brother recovers quickly from that beastly infection. What a plateful. Come back often to the 'family'. Please take care, many (((HUGS))) hugss


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Trudi,

well your kids survived meeting me!!!

We will meet tomorrow and get a bit of a plan as to how we can help you more long term.....

I am sure glad that you called.

brotherly love,
Lon

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Thx for the love. Much needed. My time and options are running out. I am in shock and so much pain. I haven't really slept since. Ruths 3 week hospital stay in july. Exhausted. I just wanna curl up and sleep forever. Now to find a lawyer to prove my innocence so I don't lose the kids. Oh wait. That takes money. Shoot. Going to Lons in a bit.


~ Trudi: homeschooling mom to 6: 16,14,11,9,7, 6 mos


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