I used to be the top poster, here. Then life happened and then some and someone toxic managed to become a member here and started using what I said here against me IRL. Not that I ever said anything wrong here, but there were severe issues and she used everything she could to cause pain. So, I dropped out of sight back in 2011/12.

But KA is my home page on my laptop to this day. Facebook groups absolutely have something to do with this. A bunch of us from (ACK!!) 20 years ago or so talk IRL.

KA and KAers saved my life, quite literally, back in the day. Thought I'd start posting a bit and checking in.

Warm hugs,


A life lived in fear is a life half lived.
"Strictly Ballroom"