Hi, thanks for the response!

I totally agree, I would do ANYTHING for the surgery I just can't seem to find a doctor that wants to do it.

I've been to doctors all over the country and can't seem to find the right one, none of them have even given me any hope until this last one who was the one who said the chance of complications would not be worth it...him obviously not having any idea of what it is to live with everyone acting like you are an alien.

I have missed out on so much of my life thanks to me trying to hide my curve that I feel even if there were complications I would be in that rehab every day to recover.

That's where my question arose from, I want to make sure I am not being idealistic and think hard work will get me there and then turning out to be wrong and make it worse for myself in the end if that makes sense.